What is Your Addiction
We all have a mental picture of ourselves. We have a list of our assets. We also have a list of our shortcomings. If you wrote down your list and showed it to someone that knows you fairly well I bet you would be surprised at their reaction to your list. Possibly they would they would add to your asset list. They may also add some shortcomings. But they would probably also subtract some of the short comings you listed.
You may believe that the shortcomings they subtracted are real. You may disagree and believe that those shortcomings should remain on your list. Are you addicted to these shortcomings? This is the definition of addiction.
- The condition of being habitually or compulsively occupied with or or involved in something.
Are you compulsively and habitually occupied with these shortcomings? Probably. Your friend that knows you well is asking you to cross off these shortcomings. You do not want to. Sounds like you are attached to these shortcomings. Why not let them go? Why not give them up? Why not get over your addiction to these shortcomings? Why not increase your asset list by getting rid of these shortcomings? If you got rid of these shortcomings you could add to your asset list. You could add “ability to end my addiction to non factual shortcomings.” Or it could be worded as, “ended my addiction to the following shortcomings.”
If you end your addiction to these shortcomings you will free yourself. You will free yourself to focus on your asset list. Once you end your addiction to these non factual shortcomings you will find more assets.
Shortcomings are okay. We are not perfect. It is important to recognize your shortcomings. Once you recognize your shortcomings a world of solutions open up to you. Now you can ask for help. Or you can embark on path way to learn how these shortcomings influence you and get in your way. You can decide that you will live with these shortcomings because they are not that important in the path you are on. You can also take a look at these shortcomings and turn them into assets. For example the short coming ” I am aggressive” with some work on your part can be turned into “I am assertive.” Big difference between being aggressive and being assertive.
So take your list and end your addiction to those shortcomings that are not yours.
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Marcia, Your Confidence Coach
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