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Do You Drive Yourself Crazy?

scan00137.jpg  I have a friend, Lacy.  I love her to death but sometimes I have a hard time being around her.  She is talented, smart, witty and knowledgeable.  Yet she lacks deep understanding about herself and how she lives her life. 

Here is an example.  Lacy will start a new project.  She will do the research and start the project.  However, somewhere along the line she looses interest in doing the full research.  Somewhere along the line she drops the ball in starting her project.  Somewhere along the line she looses steam.  Somewhere along the line she stops giving it her all.  Somewhere along the line she goes through the motions without using her capabilities.  However, she does not recognize this. 

You can probably guess what happens next.  Lacy does not get the results she expected.  Lacy feels frustrated, annoyed, discouraged and depressed.  She thinks the world is against her.  She is fighting an uphill battle.  Things do not work out.  Lacy gives up only to start this process again.  And it goes on.  And she does this over and over. 

This is the place where she drives me crazy.  This is probably the place where she drives herself crazy. 

I know you can see yourself in Lacy.  I know this happens to you.  However, you can break this cycle.  You can go forward and continue your best efforts.  You can stop wasting all the energy you have put into the project that you gave up on.  You do not have to be like Lacy anymore. 

Now you are asking how??? Before I tell you how let me warn you.  If you are looking for an easy answer then move on.  If you are expecting to break this cycle without effort then move on.  This is not for those who want to wish this away.  This is not for those who want to think about this.  This is not for those who do not want to make the investment. 

This is for those who are serious, determined, and want to see improvement in their lives.  This is for those who are up to the challenge.  This is for those that want to enhance their lives.  This is for those that want to be proud of themselves.  This is for those that are ready to do something. 

 If you are serious then please visit.  Browse around and choose what will be of benefit to you.  Remember that you have the power inside of yourself to accomplish great things.  With power comes responsibility.  A responsibility to yourself. 

Marcia, Your Confidence Coach

April 13, 2007 - Posted by | change, self improvement, success

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